Hey Coach,
I want to let you know your channel deserves more views. I haven’t broke up
with my ex yet, but I really want to and I’m wondering am I doing the right
thing. We’ve been together for over 5 years and have 2 kids together. She’s
really changed since the birth of our second kid. She’s been cold to me and
stand offish. She seems to almost be disgusted by me. I mean it’s beyond
the fact that she fell out of love for me. It as if she’s become this different
person and she’s always irritated with the kids, yelling all the time. I asked if
she wanted to get counselling, she said no and now I don’t know what to do, I
feel like I’ve exhausted all efforts to be a good man. I can’t see myself taking
much more, we aren’t married but it’s like we are. The house we live is her
grandmothers and she’s got a small inheritance that will probably run out in
the next 3-5 years, I make decent money, but I’m not sure how to go about
this as I don’t think she’s mentally fit as a mother and with my current job, I’m
not sure I have enough to take on the kids fulltime. My mother said she’d
help and agrees I should breakup with her, I just don’t know how to go about
it. I’m scared to bring it up and she knows its coming, she’s even said things
like I know you’re going to leave one day that’s what men do in my life. I just
can’t stand to hear that. I’m lost right now, what’s your take coach?